Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth - Jesus in Matthew Chapter 5
[or at least free bus fare]
Okay, so I got out of the wrong side of the shuttle van (forgetting once again that the driver sits on the RIGHT) While the older
gentleman driver was a little perturbed and grouchy for a few days, the more I made fun of my own ignorance and stupidity, the more he warmed up to me. Only one week later, he went out of his way to volunteer to make an extra stop in town just so I could jump out and run to the ATM in order to pay the
cabbie for my 4:00am ride to the airport.
On another day, after a flight delay had worn my patience, another crotchety old bus driver was visibly agitated that I did not understand his heavy accent and he had to repeat himself several times. I kept pleading my ignorance of the bus routes and the appropriate fare and asked him to assist me in getting to the right bus that would accept my pass. The entire busload of people were chuckling at this exchange and finally the driver said "I'm tired of messing with it! Have a seat (for free!)" As walked back to my seat with the other girls, both exhausted and triumphant (for we were all broke from Dublin), I got lots of smiles and nods. Another older man, by his manner of dress and accent of a higher
socio-economic class than the driver, came back and assured me with a wink that he would see that we did not miss our stop. The entire busload of passengers seemed very amused at the exchange and did not resent my "
foreignness."
It was quite a different attitude when I made a mistake in public without opening my mouth. Going the wrong way in a line earned me a
surprised, indignant look and some
impertinent words from the gent behind me. The shop clerks rolled their eyes impatiently as I slowly rummaged through the unfamiliar currency until I spoke and my American accent became apparent for all to hear. Then, and only then, were they helpful as I worked with the system. I guess confusion is okay for foreigners, but I got the distinct impression that the English are not very patient with the inept among themselves. The English seem to expect more common sense from their own citizenry than they expect from Americans, and I'm also sure that they get just what they expect!
I thought this through to its logical conclusion and realized that in America, most people are far too impatient with everyone, especially with foreigners on American soil. Americans are impatient with those who are attempting to work their way through our culture, impatient with the elderly, impatient with children and teens, impatient with their own families and loved ones. As Americans we are too arrogant, too self-centered, and far too demanding.
People like to be needed. The "damsel in distress" role produces more satisfactory results for a tourist than the demanding role of "Arrogant American." Searching my own soul, I see that I have allowed my Americanism to trump my Christianity far too often. Once again I see the pure truth and beauty of the The Golden Rule in all situations.
So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 7:12